Category Archives: Chris Cummins

Does my therapist know if we will make it? 

Does my therapist know if we will make it? 

So, you are in couples therapy and you get the feeling that your therapist may know whether or not your relationship will make it. But.. they will not tell you. The therapist has seen your arguments and they know the troubles that led you to therapy. The therapist was trained to recognize signs of a… Continue Reading

My Relationship Is Just Okay..

My Relationship Is Just Okay..

The funny thing about your relationship being “just okay” is that I likely will not see you in my office. On the therapy spectrum, some couples are nearing divorce/separation. Some couples need a “tune up” for a part of their relationship. And then there is a period during therapy where couples are progressing from dissatisfied… Continue Reading

Selfishness – The Fun Way To Improve Your Relationship

Selfishness – The Fun Way To Improve Your Relationship

Are you doing what makes you happy? If you are in an unsatisfactory relationship, I bet your answer is no. Taking time and space for yourself is essential to being satisfied in your relationship.  But selfishness is not just about taking time for yourself, it’s about telling your partner what you need as an individual.… Continue Reading